At the end of July/beginning of August, the kids and I were given the opportunity to go to Oklahoma to attend Global Reunion-- a re-entry/third culture kid camp organized broadly by the Church of Christ. We had an amazing time. It was such a great encouragement to us spiritually and emotionally. We were able to start grieving our losses, begin to pursue some healing, receive tools that we can use as we travel these murky waters, and find a community of people that are also trying to readjust to life in America and children who are now a beautiful swirly pattern of many cultures.
On our way, we decided to drive through Texas. We spent the weekends in Texas and visited the Dallas OPC for Sunday worship.
The littles learned about the Bridge of Chaos, just like their older siblings did many years ago at MTI. The Bridge of Chaos, starts with being "Settled" on one side, then moves to "unsettled" then "chaos" then "resettling" then "settled again." And around the bridge of chaos, are the arms of God carrying us through. It's been so helpful to be able to remind the kids when they are feeling the chaos, that the chaos won't last forever and that God is surrounding us as we travel across this bridge.
They also learned about Yay Ducks and Yuck Ducks! Again, the older kids had learned this at MTI before we went to the field and the littles have grown up telling us what their yay ducks (things they like!) and yuck ducks (things they don't like!) were, but never really understood why. The yay ducks and the yuck ducks always swim together and are never far apart. Together they make a pair of ducks...or a paradox. Teaching the kids to speak both is so helpful!
The teens had their own camp and I only saw them for a few brief moments during the week. Global Reunion started as a camp for teenaged third culture kids. Many teens come every year for camp. There were over 80 this year! Our kids had a blast and are already plotting how they can get back next year. On the last day, we had a flag ceremony. Timothy carried the Canada flag, Matthew carried the Netherlands' flag, Rebecca carried the Uganda flag and Katelyn carried the Kenyan flag.
We also got to visit with some very special people along the way. First is my "half sister"...her adoptive parents were my foster parents. It's been many years since we've seen each other.
We also got to hang out with my old Roomie from our Covenant College days. We have just a "few" kids between us now.
I also recently started a Go Fund Me Page. The Lord has opened doors for me to begin graduate school next week online. I will be studying for a masters degree of mental health counseling with an emphasis in Christian counseling. You can read all the details on the page. Just click the gofundme icon below!
Thank you so much for your continued prayers! Every day we feel God's sustaining grace and I know that he is hearing every one who continues to lift us up daily! Thank you!
Oh this looks like it was a healing week. I remember yay ducks and yuck ducks. Love you all bunches and bunches.
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